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Parshas Tetzaveh-Zachor: The Plane Hijacking Was Real!

Parshas Tetzaveh-Zachor

The Plane Hijacking Was Real!

 

“You shall make the robe of the ephod of pure blue.” (Shmos 28:32)

I read a story some time ago, but I do not recall the source.

In the 1960’s, it was not uncommon for a plane to be hijacked from Miami to Cuba. On one such occurrence, the hijacker held a knife to the throat of the stewardess in full view of all the passengers. No one screamed and only one passenger was frightened.  The hijacker walked with the stewardess to the cockpit. A few minutes later, the hijacker stuck his head out of the cockpit and the passengers began laughing. All, except for one passenger. How were the passengers able to remain calm and even laugh it off? Apparently, the one passenger who was frightened was Mr. Alan Funt. He hosted a show in which unusual situations were staged in public. The funny reactions of unsuspecting passersby were secretly videoed. When Mr. Funt boarded the plane, the passengers recognized him. They thought that the hijacking was not real but, rather, was being videoed in preparation for an upcoming show. Thus, they were not scared and even laughed. Mr. Funt knew that the hijacking was real. As such, he was the only one who was scared.

One who has Bitachon, trust in Hashem, understands that Hashem stage-manages events in our lives, to give us the chance to react properly and be rewarded for our actions. (Rav Yisroel Miller, What’s Wrong With Being Happy)

The Me’il was one of the garments that the Kohain Gadol wore. It was a full-length robe of sky-blue wool. Attached to its bottom hem were 72 pomegranate-shaped tassels and 72 golden bells. The Talmud (Zevachim 88B) says that each of the garments of the Kohain Gadol atoned for a specific sin of the Jewish People. The Me’il atoned for the sin of lashon hara, hurtful speech.

Often, one speaks lashon hara because of a feeling of jealousy. A person is envious of the success, honor, or wealth that his friend has. He feels bad that he is lacking in one or more of those areas. Attempting to make himself feel better, he disparages his friend or belittles his friend to others.

Rav Avraham Pam zt”l (Shabbos With Rav Pam by Rabbi Sholom Smith) points out that a more intense jealousy can arise between members of a family. Yosef Hatzadik was appointed as second in command to Pharoah. There was a terrible famine in the land of Canaan. Due to the famine, Yaakov asked his sons, “Why do you make yourselves conspicuous?” (Bereishis 42:1) Rashi explains that although Yaakov had sufficient food, meanwhile, he was concerned. He did not want to arouse the jealousy of the families of Yishmael and Esav who were starving for food. Therefore, Yaakov sent his sons to Egypt to purchase food. Maharsha (Ta’anis 10B) questions why Yaakov was concerned about arousing the jealousy of the families of Yishmael and Esav who did not live in Canaan at that time. Why wasn’t Yaakov concerned about arousing the jealousy of his Canaani neighbors? Maharsha explains that since the descendants of Yishmael and Esav were related to Yaakov, they would feel more jealousy and be angrier if they saw that Yaakov’s family had food while they did not. On the other hand, the people of Canaan were total strangers to Yaakov, Thus, they would feel less envy.

This fact illustrates the greatness of Aharon the Kohain. He was the prophet and leader of the Jews in Egypt. Yet, his younger brother, Moshe, was chosen to become the leader in Aharon’s stead. Moshe was chosen to take the Jews from slavery and bring them to freedom. That appointment could have easily made Aharon feel jealous. He could have felt, “I was the leader for so long. Now my younger brother is appointed to take my place?”  In fact, Moshe was concerned about Aharon’s feelings. That is why he tried to refuse Hashem’s appointment. Hashem told Moshe that he did not have to worry. Hashem told Moshe that Aharon was such a tzadik, with exemplary middos, that he would not be angry at Moshe. Aharon would not feel even a small tinge of jealousy. In fact, Aharon would feel happy at Moshe’s success (Shmos 4:14).

Since Aharon’s heart was totally full of love and happiness for Moshe, he merited to wear, over his heart, the Choshen, the holy breastplate of the Kohain Gadol.

Jealousy is a “disease” that brings unhappiness in the next world and even in this world. King Shlomo says that it corrodes the inner being of a person and rots his bones (Mishlei 14:30).

One of the best examples of this is the evil Haman. Haman seemed to have everything anyone would want. Haman was one of the wealthiest men ever! His children were successful, having been appointed to high government positions. Haman himself was the 2nd most powerful person in the empire! He was second only to King Achashverosh. Everyone bowed down to Haman, except for Mordechai. Haman had already set into motion the decree to kill all the Jews. He had just left an exclusive party where Queen Esther invited only him and the king. Haman was feeling great! Yet, on the way home he passed Mordechai, who did not bow down to him. What was Haman’s reaction? He told his wife, All this means nothing to me every time I see that Jew Mordechai sitting in the palace gate [and not bowing down to me]” (Megillas Esther 5:12) Haman had it all. Yet by focusing on the one thing that he didn’t have he got so upset that he could not even enjoy all that he did have.

This is what jealousy does. One can have so much to be thankful for, yet one can get upset because of the sole thing that he lacks.

What is the solution to rid ourselves of jealousy and be able to be happy? The first step is to have the right perspective. We must focus on all that we have and not on what we do not. As it says in Pirkei Avos (4:1) Ben Zoma says,” Who is rich? He who rejoices in his lot.” When we focus on all that Hashem does for us and all that Hashem gives us then we will feel gratitude and will feel happy.

The next step is the realization that Hashem orchestrates everything that happens. Hashem gives us everything that we need to fulfill our personal mission in life. Hashem determines our income, what type of home we will have, our spouse, and our family. Hashem determines how much honor we will receive. If Hashem did not give something to us, then we don’t currently need it! Therefore, as much as we try, we will not get it. Should you be jealous if a jeweler has a jeweler’s loupe and you don’t, if you are not a jeweler? Should I be jealous if you have a stethoscope if I am not a doctor?

Furthermore, Rav Moshe Chaim Luzatto writes in the Mesillas Yesharim that all situations in life are only tests. Hashem arranges the scenery and the actors and orchestrates the events that occur in our lives to see how we will react. The understanding that it is not real should help us overcome feelings of jealousy and other challenges. When we truly have bitachon, trust in Hashem, we realize that every situation is staged by Hashem, just to see how we will respond.

We can be happier when we don’t feel jealous. We can choose to have an “attitude of gratitude”.

We can choose to have a positive perspective, appreciating all that we do have instead of focusing on what we do not have. We need to recognize that Hashem gave us everything that we need to fulfill our mission in life. Furthermore, it is impossible for us to attain anything else that we don’t need for our mission. Lastly, we must realize that all our life’s situations are only tests to see how we will respond.

May we learn these lessons and live lives full of happiness!

 

 

Parshas Tetzaveh: You Should Feel Loved – Because You Are!

Parshas Tetzaveh

You Should Feel Loved – Because You Are!

“The stones shall correspond [in number] to the names of the sons of Israel: twelve, corresponding to their names. They shall be engraved like seals, each with its name, for the twelve tribes.” (Shmos 28:21)

Reb Yaakov Toisig lived in Be’er Sheva. He went to shul to daven for his father’s yahrtzeit but there were only 8 other men there. Needing one more for the minyan, he went outside. The street was empty, except for an irreligious man with long shaggy hair. Reb Yaakov approached the man and asked him to join the minyan. After many attempts at convincing him, the irreligious man finally said that he couldn’t join because he did not know how to daven. Reb Yaakov said that he would show him what to say. Then the man said, “But I don’t keep mitzvos. Will G-D even listen to my prayers?” Reb Yaakov responded, “You should know that every Jew has a lofty soul that was carved from underneath the Throne of Glory. Hashem desires the prayers of every Jew. Every tefillah is beloved by Hashem. Yours too.” Those words pierced the young man’s heart, and he joined the minyan. Those heartfelt words changed this young man’s life as he eventually became religious. (102 Stories That Changed People’s Lives, Vol 2 by Rabbi Tzvi Nakar)

Hashem’s love for Bnei Yisroel is infinite. “And now, if you obey Me and keep My covenant, you shall be to Me a treasure out of all peoples …” (Shemos 19:5). Rashi says that Bnei Yisroel will be like the treasures of the kings; like costly vessels and precious stones, which kings store away. Targum Onkelos explains that Bnei Yisroel will be more beloved before Hashem than all the other nations!

Hashem showed how much He loves us, even when we sinned and reached the 49th level of impurity. “They saw [a vision of] Hashem, and under His feet [there was something] like a brickwork of sapphire…” (Shmos 24:10). Rashi says that while the Jewish People had been enslaved in Egypt, Hashem had placed a brickwork of sapphire under His throne to constantly bear in mind their suffering (which was symbolized by the brick work). Hashem wanted to constantly bear in mind the pain and suffering that His treasured nation was undergoing while in Egypt. The bricks symbolized their affliction. After Bnei Yisroel were redeemed, the sapphire brickwork sparkled with clarity and light. There was now light and joy before HHHashem because of Bnei Yisroel’s redemption.

This week’s parsha describes the Choshen Hamishpat, the breastplate, that the Kohen Gadol wore. The Choshen contained 12 precious stones. Each stone was engraved with the name of one of the shevatim, the tribes. The names of the Avos were added as a supplement to the names of the shevatim. The letters of the Avos, Avraham, Yitzchak, and Yaakov were interspersed on the different stones. The words, “ֹשִבְטֵי יְֹשוּרֻן” were also inscribed on the stones.  These names and words that were added in addition to the names of the shevatim ensured that all the letters of the Hebrew alphabet were inscribed. Hashem answered urgent questions posed by the Kohen Gadol by causing the appropriate letters on the Choshen to be illuminated. Thus, the Choshen had to have all the letters.

The Sforno (Shmos 28:2) says that when the Kohen Gadol entered the Kodesh, the Sanctuary, wearing the names of Yaakov’s 12 sons on the Choshen, Hashem would remember their righteousness and, in their merit, bring peace and blessing to their children.

The Kedushas Levi is troubled by this. Generally, we ask Hashem for mercy in the merit of our forefathers and not in the merit of the children. Why weren’t the names of the Avos the primary engravings on the Choshen?

The Kedushas Levi gives a beautiful answer. The Kohanim were chosen by Hashem from all the other tribes, to serve Hashem. As the pasuk states,“For him [shevet Levi] did Hashem choose from all your tribes to stand and perform the service in the name of Hashem, he and his sons for all time.” (Devarim 18:5) The other shevatim may have felt less loved by Hashem. To counter that mistaken feeling that they may have had, the names of ALL the shevatim were engraved on the Choshen. The purpose was to show that all the shevatim were beloved equally by Hashem. The Kohanim were merely intermediaries between the people and Hashem.

Rav Pam zt”l said, “We see from this that every Jew, no matter what his background, lineage, or station in life, is beloved by Hashem. No Jew should ever feel that he is worthless before Hashem or that Hashem does not take an active interest in his existence and accomplishments.”

(Messages from Rav Pam by Rabbi Sholom Smith)

 

 

Parshas Tetzaveh – Special Purim Issue – The Most Powerful Weapon!

Parshas Tetzaveh – Special Purim Issue

The Most Powerful Weapon!

 

“Mordechai tore his garments and … cried out a great and bitter cry.” (Megillas Esther 4:1)

The evil Prime Minister, Haman, convinced King Achashverosh to annihilate every single Jew. Rashi (Megillas Esther 4:1) says that Mordechai, who was the leader of the Jews, was told about this terrible decree, in a dream. He was told that the punishment had been decreed because the Jews had bowed to the idol in the days of Nevuchadnetzar, and because they had enjoyed Achashverosh’s feast. Mordechai’s response to this news was, “And Mordechai tore his garments and clothed himself in sack and ashes; and he went out in the midst of the city, and he cried out a great and bitter cry”. The Maharzu and Eitz Yosef (Midrash Rabbah Shmos 38:4) explain that Mordechai’s “crying” refers to tefillah, prayer.

Although the actual decree of annihilation was scheduled to take place in eleven months hence, Mordechai felt that the Jews were in an exceedingly dangerous situation. He sent a message to Queen Esther to immediately approach King Achashverosh and beg him to save the Jewish People. Esther responded that there was a death penalty for anyone approaching the king without first getting permission. If she would go to the king now, she would be placing her life in danger. She felt that it was prudent to wait until the king called for her. She said that he would probably call for her sometime soon, as he had not seen her for almost 30 days. Mordechai felt that the situation was so serious that he told Esther that she should go anyway, despite the danger to her life. Esther agreed to go but requested that the Jews fast for three days beforehand. In that merit she would be successful in her mission. The last day of the fasting was the night of the first Pesach seder. If the Jews would be fasting, that they would not be able to fulfill the Torah requirement of eating matza at the seder. They would also be unable to fulfill the Rabbinic mitzva of drinking the 4 cups of wine and eating marror. Despite that, Mordechai agreed that all the Jews should fast.

Later in the Purim story, there was a turn-around of events. Mordechai was honored greatly while Haman was humiliated. The Midrash (Esther Rabbah 10:4-5) tells us what occurred. “The king said to Haman: Hurry, take the garments and the horse as you have said. Do so to Mordechai the Jew who sits at the king’s gate. Do not omit anything that you spoke of.”

Haman went to Mordechai and told him to put on the royal garments. Mordechai responded, “Why are you dishonoring the monarchy? Is there any man who would put on royal garments without bathing?” Haman went and sought a bath attendant but could not find one. Queen Esther had declared a national holiday, closing all the schools and stores. She wanted everyone to witness Haman’s humiliation. Since there was no bath attendant available, Haman who had previously been a bath attendant, was forced to bathe Mordechai himself. After the bath, Haman told Mordechai to put on the king’s crown. Mordechai said to him, “Why are you dishonoring the monarchy? Is there any man who would put on a royal crown without a haircut?” Haman searched for a barber but could not find one. What did he do? Haman, who had been a barber for many years, gave Mordechai a haircut.  Then Haman told Mordechai to mount the horse. Mordechai said, “I do not have the strength [to mount it], for I am old.” Haman responded that he too was also old.  Mordechai said to Haman that he had brought this upon himself.  Thereupon, Haman bent down on his hands and knees to allow Mordechai to step on him to mount the horse. Then Haman led Mordechai on the horse through the city square, proclaiming, “So shall be done to the man that the king wishes to honor!’” (Megillas Esther 6:10-11)

The Midrash continues that while Mordechai was riding the horse, he began praising Hashem. “I will exalt You, Hashem, for You have lifted me up and have not caused my enemies to rejoice over me. Hashem, I cried out to You, and You have healed me. Hashem, You brought my soul up from the grave. You have given me life that I not go down to a pit.” (Psalms 30:2–4).

Clearly, the tide was beginning to turn. It appeared that Haman’s downfall had begun. When Haman returned home, even his wife and other advisors told him that his downfall was a foregone conclusion (Megillas Esther 6:13). Yet, as soon as Mordechai completed his ride, Rashi says (6:12) that he went back to wearing sackcloth and fasting.

We would think that at this point, Mordechai would not be praying with the same intensity as before. After all, he had experienced the beginning of the tide turning. Yet, the Maharzu comments on the Midrash Rabbah in this week’s parsha (Shmos 38:4) that when Mordechai returned to sackcloth and prayer, he prayed with the same level of intensity as previously.  Mordechai’s prayer at this time, despite the onset of Haman’s downfall, was as powerful as when he had first found out about the harsh decree.

 

It is amazing that Mordechai was able to pray with the same deep feelings when he clearly saw Haman’s downfall quickly occurring! It is also amazing that he felt the necessity to do so! He understood that the Jews were still in danger, and that Hashem could, just as easily, turn things back around if the Jews were not deserving.

 

When we are in need, we turn to our most powerful weapon, prayer. Sincere prayer from the depths of our heart is very powerful and productive. Hashem does not always give us the answer that we want. However, our prayers can make a difference now, and for our future generations. Our prayers may even help one of our future descendants in need. Even if we see that our prayers are beginning to help, we must not let up. We must continue praying with the same fervor and intensity as before. We cannot take anything for granted, as situations can quickly change and turn back around.

 

When, with Hashem’s help, we do see salvation, we must continue our heartfelt prayers, expressing our thanks and appreciation to Hashem.