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Parshas Shmos: No Pain, YES Gain!

Parshas Shmos

No Pain, YES Gain!

 

“And he [Moshe] said [to Hashem], “Please my Lord, send through whomever You will send!’” (Shmos 4:13)

It was the early 1900’s. Della and her husband, Jim, were very poor. Expenses had been greater than expected. Della had been saving every penny she could for months to buy a present for her husband. All she could save was one dollar and eighty-seven cents. She cried in front of the mirror. Then she looked at her hair which was very long. She came to a difficult decision. She went to a wig store and offered to sell her hair. The proprietor offered her $20 for it, which she quickly accepted.  Her hair was cut very short, yet she was happy. Now she had enough money to buy a silver chain for her husband’s watch, which he had inherited from his father and grandfather. When Jim came home from work and saw his wife, he stared at her with an odd expression on his face. She told him that she had sold her hair to buy him a nice present, but he just stared. Then he gave her a package, containing a gift that he had bought for her. He had bought her beautiful combs, made of shells, with jewels at the edge, to wear in her beautiful hair. They cost a lot of money, she knew, and her heart had wanted them without ever hoping to have them. And now, the beautiful combs were hers, but the hair that should have touched them was gone. Then Della took the gift that she had bought for Jim. “Isn’t it wonderful, Jim? I looked all over town to find it. Give me your watch. I want to see how it looks on it.” Instead of obeying, Jim fell on the couch and put his hands under the back of his head and smiled. He told her that he didn’t have the watch anymore.  He had sold his gold watch to get money to buy the set of combs for her hair. (The Gift of the Magi by O. Henry)

Both Jim and Della thought about how to make each other happy. Each was willing to sacrifice something very meaningful and dear to them, to give to the other.      

Moshe saw a spectacular sight, a burning bush that was not being burnt. When Moshe went to investigate, Hashem called to him.  Hashem said that it was time to free the Jewish People from the oppression of the Egyptians. Hashem wanted to send Moshe to be their redeemer and savior. The Torah (Shmos 4:13) states Moshe’s response to Hashem. Moshe told Hashem to ask someone else to do it. That seems to be a strange answer to tell Hashem. The Midrash Yalkut Shmoni (paragraph 172) explains Moshe’s refusal. It wasn’t that Moshe did not want to go. Rather, Moshe felt if he would be the redeemer, it would be disrespectful to his brother Aharon. Aharon had been the leader and prophet for the Jews for the past 80 years! How could Moshe come and take over the mantel of leadership?! Moshe felt that it would cause Aharon pain. Therefore, Moshe refused to go. Hashem told Moshe that Aharon would not feel any pain. Not only that, but Aharon would feel true, heartfelt joy for Moshe (Shmos 4:27). According to the Zeis Ranan, Aharon’s joy would be so great that it would not be able to be described in words. In fact, Aharon would be rewarded for this love with an addition to the priestly garments that he would wear in the Beis HaMikdash, when serving as the Kohain Gadol. He would merit to wear, on his heart, the urim vetumim in the choshen, the breastplate. (The urim vetumim was an inscription of Hashem’s holiest name, which was placed inside the choshen. By virtue of the power residing in Hashem’s name, the letters inscribed upon the stones of the choshen would light up to reveal the answer to the question that the Kohain Gadol would present.).

HaRav Nosson Tzvi Finkel zt”l, known as the Alter of Slobodka, in the sefer Ohr Hatzafon, questions Moshe’s actions. Hashem wanted Moshe to redeem the Jewish People, freeing them from debilitating servitude. The Jewish People would then become a holy nation, would receive the Torah, would enter Eretz Yisroel, and would build the Bais HaMikdash, where Hashem’s Holy Presence would reside. Moshe would be saving an entire nation and bringing them to achieve the goal of Creation. Furthermore, Moshe loved the Jewish People so intensely and completely that he had tried to help bear their burden even when he was still a prince in Pharoah’s palace. Moshe was being given the opportunity and the eternal merit to save his beloved People and to be instrumental in bringing them to the pinnacle of the purpose of Creation. Aharon would feel overjoyed that the Jews were being redeemed. Would he feel pain that he wasn’t leading the redemption? Yet, Moshe was willing to give up all of that and say no to Hashem, out of concern, lest it cause some, even minimal, pain to his brother Aharon.

What a lesson for us! We must be so careful, to consider the feelings of others. How careful we must be to avoid causing even a minimal hurt, even during a monumental moment. The Alter of Slobodka zt”l says that everyone was created in the image of Hashem and causing pain to someone else is tantamount to causing pain to Hashem!

 

Parshas Vayakhel/Pekudei: How To Succeed!

Parshas Vayakhel/Pekudei

How To Succeed!

“Take from yourselves a portion for Hashem, everyone whose heart motivates him shall bring it …” (Shmos 35:5)

The Rabbi of the synagogue had just finished speaking. The president stood up and started announcing the pledges for the building fund, for the new synagogue building. Shmuel was very wealthy, yet he was not planning on giving a large donation. The president announced, “Yaakov Cohen pledges $10,000, Reuvein Weiss pledges $10,000, Bernie Gol pledges $10,000, ….” Shmuel heard the names of his wealthy friends pledging large donations. He thought to himself, “How would it look if I am the only one of my friends that does not contribute generously?” Begrudgingly, he raised his hand, also pledging $10,000.

Moshe assembled all the Jewish People telling them that Hashem was giving them the privilege of constructing the Mishkan, the Tabernacle that would contain G-D’s Holy presence. Moshe told them all the materials that were needed and added that “everyone whose heart motivates him shall bring it”. The Kli Yakar explains that apparently, this was a prerequisite. If you did not donate graciously and whole-heartedly, it was not accepted. A donation such as Shmuel’s would not have been accepted.  Rabbi Naftali Tzvi Yehudah Berlin zt”l in his commentary on the Torah, Ha’emek Davar says that the words “he shall bring it” teach us that the donor must bring his donation personally. He may not send it with someone else. The reason is that those who are collecting the donations must ascertain that this donation is being given graciously and wholeheartedly and not due to peer pressure.

Why was it necessary for the donation to be given wholeheartedly? The Chasam Sofer says, everything that we have is from Hashem. When the Jews donated their wealth, it was only as if they were returning what Hashem had given them. The only thing that the Jews could give Hashem was their “hearts”, by donating lovingly and wholeheartedly.

The Ohr HaChaim gives a different explanation. He says that Hashem also donated something to the construction. Hashem gave something intangible, something holy, which brought together all the contributions, sustaining the Mishkan and enabling it to stand. The donor had to elevate his gift to a high, spiritual level so that it could merge with Hashem’s donation.  If the human donor did not possess the graciousness that the Torah describes, then the gift of such a person had no chance of merging with Hashem’s gift.

I had another thought that perhaps may explain why it was necessary for the donation to be given wholeheartedly. The Talmud (Bava Metzia 85B) quotes a story about Rabbi Chiya. Rabbi Chiya told Rabbi Chanina that he was working to ensure that Torah not be forgotten. What did he do? He planted flax. When the flax grew, he would harvest it and would weave it into nets to trap deer. When he caught the deer, he would feed its meat to orphans and would turn the deer skins into parchment. He would write each of the Five Books of the Torah on separate parchments and each of the Six Orders of the Mishna on separate parchments. He would go to a town where there was no one to teach Torah. There, he would teach five children.  He would teach each child one of the Five Books of the Torah. Then he would teach the Six Orders of the Mishnah to six other children. When he completed teaching them, he told them to teach each other, until he returned. Each child eventually learned all the five Books of the Torah as well as the Six Orders of the Mishna. This way, he ensured that the Torah would not be forgotten by the Jewish people.

Why was it necessary for Rabbi Chiya to go to all this trouble to plant, harvest, make nets, catch deer, etc…? Why didn’t he just buy parchment and write the Torah on it? The Maharsha answers that Rav Chiya was starting a new project for the sake of the Torah. He wanted to do every single action for the sake of Hashem and to imbue each action with greater holiness, ensuring a greater chance for success. 

Perhaps, each person donating graciously, added to the holiness of Mishkan as it was being built for the first time.

When we embark on a new project, our thoughts and intentions impact the success of the project.
If all of the required actions are done totally for the sake of Hashem, we have a better chance at success.

Parshas Ki Sisa: Get Paid “Millions” Just for Trying!

Parshas Ki Sisa

Get Paid “Millions” Just for Trying!

“And Hashem gave Moshe [the luchos] when He finished speaking to him on Mount Sinai”. (Shmos 31:18)

My shoes were in bad shape, so I brought them to the shoemaker. I returned a few days later. The shoemaker said that the bill was $40. However, I noticed that the shoes were in the same bad shape. The shoemaker had not fixed them. I asked him why he charged me $40 when he obviously did not fix the shoes. He told me that he tried hard to fix them and that the $40 was for his time and effort.

I can not imagine anyone being willing to pay the shoemaker for his effort. The way of the world is to pay for results, not solely for effort. However, there is a situation where a worker DOES get paid for his effort. ….

The Midrash (Shir Hashirim 5:11) quotes a story about two workers, a foolish one and a wise one. A man approached them with an unusual request. He offered to pay them to pour water into a basket with a hole in it. The foolish worker refused the job. He felt that the job was purposeless. All the water would flow out of the hole in the basket. The wise worker accepted the job. Obviously, the owner knew that the water would spill out. He was willing to pay the worker for his efforts.

The Midrash compares this story to learning Torah. A foolish person refuses to learn. He feels that he is not too smart and will quickly forget his learning. If so, for what purpose should he learn? The wise person is different. He also understands that eventually he will forget what he learns. However, he realizes that Hashem will reward him richly for his efforts!

Many of us learn Torah. We remember some of it and forget some of it. At times, we find that even attempting to learn is very difficult. As much as we try, we still do not understand what we are learning.

Sometimes Hashem grants us Heavenly assistance which helps us understand something that we previously could not understand. However, even if we still do not understand it after much effort, we should always remember that Hashem rewards us for our efforts!

The Sefer Chasidim says something truly amazing which should comfort and encourage anyone who is frustrated by his inability to learn Torah. He says that one who struggles to learn Torah but is incapable of understanding, will be richly rewarded. When he arrives in the World to Come and sits in the Heavenly yeshiva, he will be able to understand the Torah which he struggled to understand in this world.

After the Jewish People received the Torah, Moshe went up to Heaven.  He remained there for 40 days and 40 nights, while Hashem taught him the entire Torah (the Written and Oral Torah). The Talmud (Nedarim 38A) quotes Rabbi Yochanan who says that Moshe kept forgetting the Torah that he had learned. Moshe felt frustrated. Hashem finally gave Moshe the Torah as a gift, enabling him to remember all that he had learned.

The Alshich asks, If Hashem knew that Moshe would be unable to remember all the Torah that he was taught, why didn’t Hashem give it to him as a gift right away? Why did Moshe have to struggle and become frustrated with a task that was doomed for failure?

The Alshich answers that Moshe was destined to transmit the Torah to The Jewish People. That transmission would continue throughout all future generations. To be worthy of this privilege, Moshe had to endure the emotional pain and frustration of learning and forgetting. Despite the setbacks, Moshe persevered and did not give up. Since he did not give up, Hashem granted him the Torah as a gift

At times, the effort to learn or understand Torah or to remember what we had learned can be difficult and frustrating. A person may want to “throw his hands up” and give up, feeling that it is not worth it. As hard as it is, we should NEVER give up.  Sometimes, Hashem will reward our struggles and grant us the Divine assistance to understand or to remember.

Even if we still do not understand or remember, we receive unimaginable reward, just for trying!!

Our struggles will also bear fruit after 120 years, when we go to the Heavenly yeshiva.

Then, we will be able to understand and remember the Torah that we toiled over.

 

(This dvar Torah is based on Rav Pam on Chumash by Rabbi Sholom Smith)

Parshas Tetzaveh: Light that Lamp Again and Again!

Parshas Tetzaveh

Light that Lamp Again and Again!

“And you shall command the Jewish People that they shall take for you pure, pressed, olive oil for light, to continually light the lamp.” (27:2)

Imagine if you had an offer for the opportunity of a lifetime. Hashem sent someone to ask you, “Would you like to donate some money for the Third Bais HaMikdash? It is 100% guaranteed to be built very soon.”

Which Jew would not grab this “golden” opportunity and donate as much as he could?

If Hashem’s representative made the same request the following day, I am sure that you would donate again. Perhaps even if you receive the same request a third or fourth time, you probably would still donate. What if the representative comes to you again and again? Would you still donate towards this holy endeavor on a daily or weekly basis? You probably would not be interested in continuously donating, even if you have the money to do so, since the request is so repetitive and costly. However, if you would stop to think for a moment, why wouldn’t you donate? It is for a holy cause beyond description!

Hashem had told Moshe to “Speak to the Jewish People” (Shmos 25:2), asking them for donations to build the Mishkan (Tabernacle). Yet, when Hashem asked Moshe to ask the Jewish People to provide pure oil to light the Menorah, Hashem told Moshe to “Command the Jewish People”. Hashem also used the words, “to command” regarding the Korban Tamid (a sacrifice) which was brought twice daily. Why was it necessary to command the Jewish People to participate in these two mitzvos? Wouldn’t it have been enough to simply speak to them? The Ba’al Haturim explains that these two mitzvos are unique. Both mitzvos were done every day and both mitzvos required an outlay of money from the Jewish People.

This teaches us an understanding of human nature. If there is a mitzvah that is repetitive or costly, it is hard to fulfill it repeatedly. We may lose our enthusiasm for certain mitzvos. We should constantly review the value of each mitzvah and the opportunity that it provides us to be close to Hashem for eternity (which is a very long time). That might inspire us to feel that each time we are doing the mitzvah, it is as if it is the first time that we did it.

Furthermore, we see that the purpose of Hashem’s command to do these two mitzvos was to solve the afore mentioned problem. Merely the knowledge that Hashem had commanded us to do them, was enough to inspire and motivate us to fulfill them.

We can be inspired to do all the mitzvos repeatedly by realizing that they are the guidelines and obligations

given to us by the Master of All. The mitzvos enable each of us to live the happiest and best possible life.

Parshas Terumah: Heaven Help You!

Parshas Terumah

Heaven Help You!

“And you shall make a Menorah of pure gold, hammered out shall the Menorah be made….”

A man had heard that the Chozeh of Lublin was a very holy man and could tell what a person was thinking by looking at him. Skeptical, he asked the Chozeh if he knew what he had davened for. The Chozeh told him that had petitioned Hashem to allow him to have more free time to learn Torah. Apparently, he had very little free time to learn Torah. Even the free time that he did have was wrought with the challenge of being very tired from a long day at work. This man had learned Torah for many years. Now he had to support a family and found that his time to learn Torah was very limited. The young man was astounded that the Chozeh knew what he had davened for. He asked the Chozeh what Heaven’s response was, to his prayers. The Chozeh said that the angels laughed. Hashem could easily send money to this young man enabling him to spend more time learning. However, that was not what Hashem wanted. What Hashem wanted was to see this man’s determination to learn despite the less than optimum conditions. What was precious in Hashem’s eyes was that this man learned as much as he was able to despite his challenges. (based on a story told by Rabbi Dovid Ashear)

The Parsha discusses the utensils in the Mishkan (Tabernacle). The Aron (Ark), the Menorah (Table), and the Mizbayach Haketores (Incense Altar) represented the three crowns that were given to the Jewish People. As such, each was constructed with a golden crown around it. The crowns were the Crown of Torah, the Crown of Kingship, and the Crown of Priesthood. The Crown of Priesthood was exclusively for the kohanim and the Crown of Kingship was for the tribe of Yehudah, for King David and his offspring. The Crown of Torah is available for every single Jew. Whoever wants to, can acquire the Crown of Torah.

A person who learns Torah can feel a sense of spirituality and holiness, a connection to Hashem. However, learning Torah may not come easily to some people. (Although nowadays it is so much easier since we have with so many sefarim written in English and so many online Torah classes in English). The Sfas Emes (quoted by Rabbi Yissachar Dov Rubin in Talelei Oros) gives an answer for those people. One of the vessels in the Mishkan was the Menorah. The Menorah had a very intricate design. Hashem showed Moshe how to make it. Moshe had such difficulty understanding what to do that Hashem told him to throw a large gold ingot into the fire and the Menorah would be made by itself, miraculously. The Sfas Emes questions, If the Menorah was going to be made miraculously, why was it necessary for Hashem to first show Moshe how to make it? The Sfas Emes says that this teaches us a very important lesson. When a person tries as hard as he can to do a mitzvah but cannot do any more, then he will get siyata dishmaya and Hashem will help him complete it. The Talmud (Shabbos 104A) states that if a person tries to purify himself, Hashem will assist him to succeed. Not every person is able to perform every mitzvah to perfection. However, if he tries his utmost, Hashem will assist him.

The Parsha also lists all the items that Moshe collected from the Jewish People for the construction of the Mishkan. The last items that were mentioned were the precious stones that were placed in the Choshen (the breastplate of the Kohain Gadol). The Ohr HaChaim said that these precious stones were the most valuable of all the materials that were collected. If so, why were they mentioned last? The Ohr HaChaim gives three answers. The last answer is based on the Talmud (Yuma 75A) that says that these precious stones fell from the sky, together with the Manna. Targum Yonassan ben Uziel (Shmos 35:28) says that the Pillar of Cloud (that guided the Jews during the daytime) brought these stones from the Pishon River, one of the rivers that flowed from Gan Eden. The Ohr HaChaim says, all the other items that were donated to the Mishkan were acquired with effort and donated at a cost to the owner. However, these precious stones were acquired with no effort and at no cost. Therefore, they were not as precious to Hashem as the other gifts. Therefore, they were written last.

We see from this, that what Hashem truly values is our effort.

If we try our utmost in the performance of a mitzvah, Hashem will help us succeed!

 

Parshas Mishpatim: Do You Truly Want to be Happy? The Secret is…

Parshas Mishpatim

Do You Truly Want to be Happy? The Secret is…

“If you see your enemy’s donkey struggling under its load … You shall repeatedly help him”. (Shmos 23:5)

Rabbi Yisroel Salanter zt”l once shared a compartment on the train with another Jew. The other fellow did not realize that he was in the presence of a great Torah leader. He acted continuously rude and obnoxious during the ride. Later, when the man found out the identity of his compartment mate, he went to Rabbi Yisroel and begged for forgiveness. Rabbi Yisroel quickly forgave him. In addition, Rabbi Yisroel went out of his way to help this man. When questioned why, Rabbi Yisroel explained, when a person feels offended or embarrassed, deciding to forgive the person will not suffice to wipe away the ill feelings. The only way to remove resentment from the heart is to do a concrete action of helping the person who had offended you (Talelei Oros by Rabbi Yissachar Dov Rubin).

If you see your enemy’s animal struggling under a load that is too heavy for it, it is a mitzvah to help him unload the heavy burden. The Talmud (Pesachim 113B) asks, why we consider this your enemy’s animal? Doesn’t the Torah say that you are forbidden to hate another Jew (Vayikra 19:17) in your heart? The Talmud answers that we are speaking about a person to whom it is a mitzvah for you to hate! You were the solitary witness who saw this person do an immoral and abominable act, making him a rasha in your eyes (If two people witnessed this act then the sinner could be brought to court and it would be a mitzvah for everyone to hate him. Since only you saw the act, you are not permitted to testify in court. However, you are still obligated to hate him). Even though you hate this person, the Torah obligates you to help him with his animal. The reason is to prevent the hatred from increasing and snowballing to a level that is not warranted. Tosefos explains that the animal owner sees the hatred reflected on your face and therefore also hates you. If you do not help him, he will hate you even more. That feeling will show in his face. When you see that, you will hate him even more. …..

HaRav Alter Henach Leibowitz z”tl says that when you help him with his animal, you are supposed to fulfill the mitzvah in its entirety and with joy, as you do any mitzvah. We see that you can have two powerful, yet contradictory, feelings in your heart at the same time. On the one hand, you feel hatred for this person. On the other hand, you are doing the mitzvah out of love for him.

HaRav Alter Henach Leibowitz z”tl says that the Targum Onkelos goes even one step further. He says that while you are in the act of performing the mitzvah, you should remove, from your heart, all your feelings of hatred towards him. Apparently, you should act with the same feelings of love that you would have for any Jew. When you finish helping him, you should restore your previous feeling of hatred towards him. Amazingly, the Targum Onkelos feels that a person is capable of completely removing the feelings of hatred that he feels in his heart, albeit temporarily.

No person is perfect. We all err, and, at times, we wrong our friend who then gets angry at us. Our friend also errs and causes us to be angry at him. The anger can lead to a degree of feelings of hatred, even though that is forbidden from the Torah. However, as the Targum Onkelos says, we can remove those feelings of hatred from our heart. How do we do so? Rav Avraham Pam zt”l (in Rav Pam on Chumash by Rabbi Sholom Smith) quotes the Talmud (Derech Eretz Zuta -2) which says, “If one wishes to increase his love for another person, he should exert himself to do kindnesses to the other person.” This will erase any ill feelings one person has towards the other.

This is a very valuable tip to help us have happy relationships with others. If we are upset at someone, we should act with kindness towards them, and sometimes do multiple acts of kindness. That will help us remove our negative feelings towards them and ultimately will make us happier. Isn’t that what we really want? To be happy?

Parsha Yisro: Is This the Ultimate?

Parshas Yisro

Is This the Ultimate?

“And Moshe went down to the people and spoke to them. Hashem spoke all these words, saying”. (Shmos 19:25; 20:1)

 

There was a very important meeting in the European town to discuss a problem with kashrus. Apparently, there was a real concern about the kosher standards of a particular butcher. As the community meeting was about to start, the butcher walked in and sat down. The Rav noticed him and started talking about something else. After a while, some of the other attendees were getting anxious and wanted to start discussing the issue at hand. They wanted to tell the butcher to leave so that they could begin the meeting. The Rav refused. Only after the butcher left, did the Rav start discussing the pressing issue. This was a very important meeting to discuss a very important topic. Yet, the Rav showed derech eretz, sensitivity to another, to the butcher, and did not ask him to leave or discuss the topic in front of him. The Rav’s actions were even more special when you consider that it was this very butcher’s misdeeds that had prompted them to call this meeting.

After the Jewish People left Egypt and reached the foot of Har (Mount) Sinai. Hashem sent Moshe with a message to the Jews, asking if they would be willing to accept the Torah. The Jews responded with a resounding, “All that Hashem has spoken, we will do!” (Shmos 19:8)

Moshe returned to tell Hashem what the Jews responded. Rashi wonders why Moshe had to tell that to Hashem. Obviously, Hashem who is All-Knowing, knew what the Jews had said. Rashi explains that Moshe acted with derech eretz. He was sent to ask a question and felt that it was appropriate that he return with the answer.

Rabbi Dovid Leibowitz zt”l  highlights from this Rashi how important derech eretz is. This was the greatest moment in the history of the Jewish People. Hashem was about to reveal His Holiness to them and give them the Torah. Yet, Moshe felt that this small act of derech eretz should be done. Even at momentous moments, one must still think of the “minute” matters and act with derech eretz.

We learn a similar lesson later in the Parsha. The Midrash (Shmos 28:3) says that Hashem was about to open the heavens and show His glory to the Jewish People. Hashem was going to speak directly to them and present them with the 10 Commandments. Moshe was still standing in Hashem’s presence. At this point, Hashem did not want Moshe there. The Maharzu explains that Hashem was concerned lest the Jews would wonder who had said, “I am the L-rd your G-d”. Was it Hashem who had said it or was it Moshe who had said it while he was hidden in the dark cloud on Har Sinai?  Hashem wanted Moshe to leave. Hashem asked Moshe to descend the mountain and instruct the Jews to prepare themselves for this moment. Moshe replied that he had already done so. Moshe did not understand that Hashem wanted him to leave. Therefore, Hashem gave Moshe another instruction asking him to descend and come back up with his brother, Aharon, with each of them ascending to a different point on the mountain. As soon as Moshe descended, Hashem revealed Himself the Jewish People and started saying the 10 Commandments (Shmos 20:25, 21:1).

If Hashem did not want Moshe in the heavens when He revealed Himself, why didn’t Hashem simply tell Moshe to leave? The Maharzu explains that Hashem did not want Moshe to feel bad. Rabbi Alter Henach Leibowitz zt”l highlights the great lesson we learn from Hashem’s actions. Hashem wanted to open the heavens to speak directly to the Jewish People. This would have a tremendous impact on the Jewish People, an impact that would last forever. This was the most important moment in the history of the Jews. This was the crowning achievement. This was the purpose of both the Creation of the world and the Exodus from Egypt. Moshe would have certainly understood if Hashem Himself would have requested that he not be there. Yet, Hashem was concerned that, perhaps on some minimalistic level, Moshe might have felt bad.

Hashem is teaching us the ultimate derech eretz that we must have for others. Under all circumstances, even when involved in something of extreme importance, it is mandatory to be sensitive to another person’s feelings.

Parshas Besalach: Now I Understand!

Parshas Beshalach

Now I Understand!

“Then Moshe and Bnei Yisroel chose to sing this song to Hashem… “ (Shmos 15:1)

 

Prior to World War ll, a group of German Jews were lucky to escape from Germany to England. However, in 1940, the British were afraid that German foreigners were spies who would join with the enemy when the Nazis invaded their country. As a result, the British government rounded up all the Germans and sent them out of England. Those Germans of military age, from 18 to 65, were sent by boat to a prison in Australia, which was then a British colony. The British filled a troopship, the HMS Dunera, with over 2,500 refugees, most of whom were Jewish.

There was a fear of the Nazi submarines that patrolled the waters. All identifying marks were removed from the ship. In addition, the captain and crew were instructed not to respond to any radio requests to identify themselves. On board the ship, the Jews were all very badly treated by their British guards. The guards also looted any valuables that they could find. When they finished searching the personal luggage of the Jewish prisoners, they threw much of it overboard. Imagine how the Jews must have felt. They thought that after escaping Nazi Germany that they would be safe in England. Now they were being sent to prison and all their valuables were stolen from them. In addition, their suitcases were dumped overboard. Any extra clothes and personal mementos from home, went to the bottom of the ocean.

Life in Australia was very difficult. Eventually the prisoners were freed. Many stayed in Australia and made a life for themselves. The refugees retained unpleasant memories of their voyage. Over 40 years later a diving-team off the coast of Europe found a German submarine that had been sunk. They recovered the captain’s diary. One entry was especially interesting. The captain wrote that they were trailing an English troopship that did not have any identifying markings on it. The Germans prepared their torpedoes to sink the ship. As they were doing so, they noticed suitcases and papers floating on the surface. They sent a diver to retrieve some of the items. When they found German writing on them, they determined that this was not a troop transport carrying British soldiers. Instead, it must have been transporting German prisoners of war. The order was given NOT to torpedo the ship in order that they not harm their German brethren.

Only now, 40 years after the fact, did the refugees understand why Hashem had orchestrated that all their belongings be thrown in the ocean. That saved their lives! (Rabbi Frand on the Parashah 2 and Stephen G. Rosenberg in the Jerusalem Post online, December 12,2015).

 

At Hashem’s directive, Moshe went to Pharaoh, telling him to allow the Jews to go to the desert to serve Hashem. Pharaoh refused the request and even made the work harder for the Jewish People. He said that from this point on, the Jews would have to find their own straw to make bricks. Furthermore, they had to make the same number of bricks as they used to, when the straw had been provided to them. The Jewish foremen complained to Moshe and Aharon about their worsening plight. Moshe felt very badly that his actions caused more harm to the Jews, just the opposite of what he had intended. Moshe complained to Hashem, “Hashem, why have you done evil to this people…. “u’may’az basi”, ‘From the time’ I came to Pharaoh… he did evil to this people….” (Shmos 5:22-23)

After the plagues were brought upon the Egyptians, the Jews were freed from Egypt. They miraculously crossed the Red Sea and saw the Egyptian army drown. At that point, the Jews sang a song of praise to Hashem. The first word of the song that Moshe started was az”, “then”. The Midrash (Shmos 23:3) says that the word Moshe used was significant. Moshe told Hashem, “I know that I sinned before You with the word az”... .Therefore I am now praising You with the same word.”

When Moshe first approached Pharaoh he complained to Hashem that his visit had made matters worse for the Jews. After the Jews safely crossed the Red Sea, Moshe understood that his visit had actually helped bring salvation to the Jews. The Jews were supposed to be in Egypt for 400 years. Hashem was concerned lest they would never be able to make it out of Egypt. They had fallen to the 49th level of impurity, while in Egypt. Had they fallen one more level, they would have been so low that they would have never left Egypt. To resolve that problem, Hashem caused Pharaoh to increase the workload so that 400 years of had work be crammed into 210 years. Now, at the Red Sea, Moshe understood that the increased suffering to the Jews because of Moshe’s intervention, actually benefitted them and aided in their eventual freedom from Egypt. (based on Rabbi Frand on the Parasha 2)

We all have various difficulties in life. Our suffering may actually be the means to our ultimate salvation!

Parshas Bo: The World Is Looking At You!

Parshas Bo

The World Is Looking At You!

“Sanctify for Me every first born…” (13:2)

 

Shmuel’s wife, Rachel, had waited months to have a very serious operation. The day finally came. In the hospital, as she was being prepared for surgery, the nurse asked, “Of course you used the special lotion on your scalp before you came?” Rachel looked dumbfounded for a moment and said that she had not. The nurse said that it was important for it to have been applied to the scalp in advance of the surgery. Now, the surgery would have to be rescheduled. Rachel did not want to postpone the surgery any longer. Shmuel asked the nurse if there still be time to put it on his wife’s scalp if he could quickly get the lotion. The nurse looked at her watch and replied that if Rochel put it on in the next half an hour, the surgery could continue. Shmuel raced out of the hospital to a nearby pharmacy, but it was closed. The lights were on and Shmuel banged on the door. An employee came to the door and saw the urgency in Shmuel’s face. Shmuel explained the seriousness of the situation and said which lotion was required. The employee responded that the store had it in stock it, but the cash register was already closed, and he could not take Shmuel’s money. Shmuel promised to pay for it the next day. For some reason, the employee agreed. The next day, Shmuel came into the store to pay. When he told the cashier that he was paying for the lotion that he had taken the night before, the cashier screamed into the back room where yesterday’s employee was working. Apparently, the cashier had told the employee that he was crazy for letting the man take the lotion without paying for it. There was no way that the man was going to return to the store to pay. The employee felt that he would return. They had made a bet with each other as to whether Shmuel would return to the store to pay. Now the cashier screamed, “Had I known that the man you gave the lotion to was one of those people who wear the caps on their heads (Jews) then I would never have made the bet. Of course, he will return. Those people are honest”. Shmuel had made a kiddush Hashem, a sanctification of Hashem’s name. Clearly, other Jews also made a kiddush Hashem and that was why the cashier understood that a Jew would return to pay.

During the last plague, makas bechoros, Hashem killed all the first-born Egyptians and their animals, as well as all the firstborn non-Egyptians who were in Egypt at the time. Since the firstborn Jews were the only firstborn whose lives were spared, they became holy to Hashem forever. That is why we have the mitzvah of pidyon ha’ben, in which a parent must redeem his firstborn son from Hashem, by giving money to a kohen.

The Alter of Slobodka, Rav Simcha Zissel Ziv zt”l (Rabbi Frand on the Parsha), says that the Jewish firstborn were involved in a great kiddush Hashem. However, they did not do anything on their own. Their role was totally passive! We see from this that even passive participation in a kiddush Hashem is very great. Thereupon, Rav Simcha Zissel said, “If this is the reward for a person who has a passive role in a kiddush Hashem, how can we even begin to imagine the reward of a person that actively makes a kiddush Hashem?”

Rav Alter Henach Leibowitz zt”l quotes the Sforno (Devarim 23:21) who says that a Jew who borrows money with interest from a non-Jew must pay back, of course. If he only pays the principal and does not pay back the interest his action is considered “treachery” and he is causing a chilul Hashem, desecration of Hashem’s name. If he does pay back, he will be blessed. People look for rationalizations. Causing a chilul Hashem is so serious that Rabbi Yona of Gerona says, Yom Kippur and repentance do NOT atone for it. We must be so careful with our dealings with non-Jews and with the government to make sure that all our actions are honest.

Na’aman, the general of the King of Aram was a great warrior who was highly respected by his people. He developed tzarayas (a type of leprosy). Whichever cure he tried did not work. He heard about the Jewish prophet Elisha and asked him for help. Elisha told him what to do and Na’aman’s tzarayas was healed. King Na’aman came to Elisha with a large group of his followers. He told Elisha that he now knew that Hashem was the only true G-D. What a tremendous kiddush Hashem! Then he offered Elisha a thank you gift. Elisha refused to take it even though the Na’aman tried numerous times, pressing him to take it. (Melachim 2 5:14-15) The Ralbag explains that a navi taking a thank you gift would minimize the kiddush Hashem. Clearly, the remedy that Elisha advised clearly would not have worked without Hashem. Yet, on some level the kiddush Hashem would have been minimized had accepted a thank you gift . Even when doing a kiddush Hashem, we must be so careful not to diminish it in any way (Based on a discussion by Rabbi Alter H. Leibowitz zt”l).

 

The world expects a higher level of moral integrity and conduct from the Jews. Our actions are always under a microscope. The way we act, the way we talk to others, the way we conduct our business affairs

and the way we treat others, both Jewish and non-Jewish, make an impact.

Each one of us has this great opportunity to make a kiddush Hashem.

Parshas Va’era: Do You Have Five Minutes? It Could change Your Life!

Parshas Va’era

Do You Have Five Minutes? It Could change Your Life!

“And Moshe spoke thus to Bnei Yisroel, but they did not listen to Moshe because of shortness of breath and hard work”. (Shmos 6:9)

Rabbi Avraham Pam zt”l gave his son a watch as a bar mitzvah present. He wanted to teach his son the value of time, that time is life!

Someone once asked the Chasam Sofer the secret to his success in Torah. “I became a talmid chacham in five minutes,” the Chasam Sofer said. “Really?” asked the man. “All those five minutes that go to waste in the course of one’s lifetime – I made sure to maximize the use of them. That is why I say I became a talmid chacham in five minutes. Five minutes here and five minutes there.” (Achim.org)

Moshe returned to Egypt to rescue the Jews from bondage. Hashem told Moshe to tell the Jews that the servitude would end, and they would eventually go to the Land of Israel. The Jews were unable to pay proper attention to Moshe’s message “because of shortness of breath and hard work”. The Vilna Gaon says that the Jews were so busy with a combination of hard work and incessant work that they could not properly hear Moshe’s message of hope and freedom.

The Sefer Talelei Oros, compiled by Rabbi Yissachar Dov Rubin, quotes Rabbi Yitzchak of Volozhin who has a different explanation of the pasuk. After Moshe spoke to the Jews, Hashem told him to speak to Pharaoh. Moshe responded that he had a speech impediment. The Jews did not listen to him, even though he was speaking for their benefit, telling them news of their freedom. Certainly, Pharaoh, their slave-owner, would not listen to him.  Rabbi Yitzchak of Volozhin questions Moshe’s argument. The Torah explained previously that the Jews did not listen to Moshe because they were overburdened with work. That reasoning did not apply to Pharaoh. Why did Moshe assume that Pharaoh would not listen to him?

Rabbi Yitzchak of Volozhin answers this with a parable:

A man visited a prisoner in his jail cell. The man had a very bad stutter and spoke very slowly. The prisoner listened to him half-heartedly. When the prisoner realized that his visitor was speaking about how to secure his release from prison, he started listening to his visitor very carefully, even though it was difficult for him. Had the visitor gone to the warden to discuss the possibility of releasing the prisoner, the warden would not have had the patience to listen to him.

With this parable we can understand the pasuk. The Jews did not listen to Moshe because of their “shortness of breath and hard work”. Their bondage was so severe that they were unable to listen to the speech-impeded Moshe. Moshe told Hashem that if the Jews found it too difficult to listen to him speaking, even though it was for their benefit, then certainly Pharaoh would not have the patience to listen to him.

Pharaoh’s strategy worked. The Jews were so overburdened with work that they were unable to listen to news about their freedom. This is the same strategy that the yetzer hara, evil inclination, uses with us. The Mesilas Yesharim, The Path of the Just, by Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzatto, says that this is one of the yetzer hara’s strongest tricks. He distracts us and busies us with mundane matters. We get so involved in the unimportant aspects of life that we do not stop to think. We don’t think, what is the purpose of life, why did Hashem create us, what have we accomplished of significance, and how much time is left in our lives to accomplish what is important and eternally precious. If we would take the few minutes to think, the yetzer hara realizes that we will probably make meaningful changes in our path in life and use our time more wisely.