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Two Men Yelling at Each Other

Parshas Korach: Peace at All Costs!

Parshas Korach

Peace at All Costs!

Two Men Yelling at Each Other

 

Moshe sent a request to summon Dasan and Aviram…but they said, “We will not go up!” (Bamidbar 16:12)

It was my job as president of the synagogue to uphold its long-standing policies. A group of congregants wanted to change one of the policies. At the membership meeting they embarrassed me publicly. They called all the members of the synagogue, slandering me with vicious lies. They even called my house and threatened me with physical harm. My wife said that I should swallow my pride, go to the home of the instigator of this dispute, and try to make peace. Was my wife right? They started this fight and were very nasty to me. Should I swallow my pride, demean myself, and go to them?

Korach started a major dispute against Moshe. It showed a lack of belief in Moshe and ultimately a lack of belief that the Torah was from Hashem. Korach encouraged others to join with him against Moshe. Moshe unsuccessfully tried to reason with Korach. When Moshe saw the rebellion spreading, he tried to minimize it as much as possible. Moshe sent a message that he wanted to speak to Dasan and Aviram, two of the leaders of this argument against Moshe. Dasan and Aviram arrogantly refused to come. Immediately before Korach and his followers were to be punished, Moshe tried again to curb this rebellion. He went to the tents of Dasan and Aviram with a plea to leave the rebellion. Moshe also indicated that if they wouldn’t change their minds then Hashem would punish them severely. Dasan and Aviram responded arrogantly, refused to budge, and cursed Moshe (see Rashi on pasuk 27). Hashem punished the rebels with death; Hashem caused the earth to swallow them up.

In analyzing Moshe’s actions, we would be apt to focus solely on Moshe’s sterling Middos. A prestigious and influential group started an argument, questioning Moshe’s honesty in his appointment of others to leadership positions. They approached him in a very demeaning way. They used logical arguments to try to prove that Moshe made up (without Hashem’s directive) leadership appointments as well as making up laws by himself. They asked Moshe, if a tallis was totally dyed with techeiles (a special blue dye) would it require tzitzis (fringes). Moshe said that of course it would. They laughed at Moshe saying that this law was senseless (see Rashi on pasuk 3). Despite all this, Moshe tried to peacefully end the rebellion. When he wasn’t successful, Moshe still tried to bring peace by personally calling for two of the leaders of the rebellion. Moshe was rudely rebuffed. Yet, he tried again to bring peace by personally going to the homes of Dasan and Aviram. Moshe exhibited extreme humbleness and was willing to forgo his honor despite the strong accusations and the humiliation. We see a further degree of humility when we realize who it was that Moshe swallowed his pride to save. They were two people who had caused much suffering to Moshe! Dasan and Aviram were the two Jews who had tattled on Moshe to Pharaoh. They said that that Moshe had killed an Egyptian taskmaster who had been beating a Jew. Moshe would have been beheaded, as a result, if not for a miracle by Hashem. Moshe, then, had to run away for his life. Dasan and Aviram had also incited their followers to clamor about wanting to return to Egypt. This occurred when the Jews were at the bank of the Yam Suf with the Egyptian army behind them. Dasan and Aviram also disobeyed Moshe. They had saved their Mann and had secretly put it out on Shabbos morning. They tried to show that Moshe was a liar by pretending that the Mann did indeed rain down on the holy Shabbos. These are the type of people that Moshe swallowed his pride in order to save?

It seems that Moshe was so special; he acted above and beyond what was required of him. Not so! Moshe was required by the Torah to do what he did! Even though he was the leader, he was OBLIGATED to humble himself before such people. If he had not gone out of his way to try to bring peace, it would have been considered as if Moshe had strengthened the dispute and made it worse (Rashi quoting the Talmud, Meseches Sanhedrin 110A). Had Moshe not gone to try to make peace, HE would have been considered a sinner!

Machlokes, strife, is very serious. Even if one is in the right, the Torah obligates him to do whatever he can to end the argument. Even if one must humble oneself to make peace, he must do so. If he doesn’t, he is considered a sinner, like Korach and his followers.

Based on a dvar Torah by Rabbi A. Henach Leibowitz zt”l, Rosh HaYeshiva of Yeshivas Chofetz Chaim

Parshas Shelach: Feeling Safe in our Father’s Hands!

Parshas Shelach

Feeling Safe in our Father’s Hands!

 

“… The land through which we passed… is a land that eats up its inhabitants….” (Bamidbar 13:32)

Six-year-old Chani walked onto the airplane all by herself. The nearby passengers decided to keep an eye on her to make sure she would be safe. Suddenly, the plane began to shake because they were flying through bad weather. Many people on the plane became nervous. Chani remained totally calm. Suddenly the plane began bouncing up and down from the strong winds. Many of the passengers grew more and more nervous. Some started crying. Others began to pray. Chani was totally calm and resumed playing with her doll as if nothing was happening. The plane finally passed through the bad weather and landed in Israel. When the plane landed, one of the passengers turned to Chani and asked, “You are alone on this plane. How did you stay so calm during all that terrible weather?” Chani answered, “My father is the pilot. He is the best pilot in the whole world, and he is taking me home. Why should I be afraid?”

All of us are like young children in the hands of our father, Hashem. When we believe that, we will always feel safe, no matter what is happening around us. (story from Living Emunah by Rabbi David Ashear)

The Jewish People were on their way to enter the Land of Israel. They approached Moshe and requested permission to spy-out the land before going to conquer it from the nations that lived there. Hashem knew that wherever the Jewish spies would go they would be noticed. In order to protect the spies, Hashem performed a miracle. Wherever the spies went there were huge funerals. The people living there were too occupied with the funerals to even notice the Jewish spies. Hashem had caused the deaths of the leaders of the non-Jewish nations living in the Land of Israel. There were so many “State funerals” that the spies went unnoticed.

The Jewish spies misinterpreted what had happened. When they returned from their mission, they reported that the climate of the Land of Israel was so harsh that people were constantly dying.

This interpretation of the events that the spies had seen was very logical. Yet, Hashem was angered by it. The Midrash Rabba (16:24) quotes Hashem’s feeling. “With that which I did for their benefit, they angered me.” Hashem said that I caused the multiple funerals to occur to save the spies. The spies took those very same events as a reason NOT to enter the Land of Israel.

The question is, what did the spies do wrong? They interpreted the facts as they had seen them. They did not lie or exaggerate.

The Rosh HaYeshiva zt”l answered, had the spies had the proper degree of faith and trust in Hashem, they would have had a different interpretation of the events that they had seen. They would have thought to themselves:

Hashem had promised them the Land of Israel as a very special place. If it was so special, how could the climate be so harsh? It must be that the climate wasn’t harsh. Rather, Hashem, in His loving kindness, was performing a miracle to save them.

The Maharzu on the Midrash indicates that the evaluation of the spies showed a lack of faith in Hashem. He says that Hashem expected the Jews to act like their forefathers who had total faith in whatever Hashem did.

We see from this that the degree of one’s faith and trust in Hashem can make a difference in how he views and interprets different events that occur in his life. As said before, all of us are like young children in the hands of our father, Hashem. When we believe that, we will always feel safe, no matter what is happening around us.

Based on a dvar Torah by Rabbi A. Henach Leibowitz zt”l, Rosh HaYeshiva of Yeshivas Chofetz Chaim

Parshas Beha’aloscha: Travel with Hashem and See the World!

Parshas Beha’aloscha

Travel with Hashem and See the World!

 

“…According to the word of Hashem they would encamp and according to the word of Hashem they would journey.” (Bamidbar 9:20)

The advertisement for the hotel was so exciting. I was looking forward to a long-awaited vacation, after having a very difficult year. When I arrived at the hotel, it looked nothing like the advertisement. The walls were cracking. Springs popped out from the furniture cushions. The shower had no hot water. The outdoor swimming pool was a garden of weeds. I couldn’t afford to lose my deposit. I was stuck. I stayed in those difficult conditions for 3 weeks!

The following summer, I thoroughly and extensively researched a hotel before booking it. When I arrived, it was wonderful. The hotel was magnificent. I was treated like royalty. The rooms were beautiful and the beds were so comfortable. The hotel staff even left a tray of pastries in the room. There were two outdoor pools with clear and fresh water. There was an indoor pool, an exercise room, and an indoor basketball court. I was looking forward to three weeks of “heaven”. After enjoying the hotel stay for just one day, I got a phone call from home. There was a medical emergency and I had to leave immediately.

This was the story of the Jews in the desert, on their way into the Land of Israel. They camped numerous times. Sometimes the resting place was very uncomfortable. Yet they had to stay. Sometimes they stayed for such a short time that they didn’t even have the time to unpack their belongings. Sometimes their encampment was beautiful. Weary, after a long journey, they encamped in a paradise. Yet, there were times that they stayed in such beautiful surroundings but had to leave after a brief rest.

Although the travel seemed so difficult, each resting stop was restful and relaxing for the Jewish people. Nothing disturbed them because they “went with Hashem”. Hashem determined where they would rest and when they would go. “According to the word of Hashem they would encamp and according to the word of Hashem they would journey”. Since they traveled “with Hashem”, with emunah and bitachon; total faith and trust in Hashem, their travels were peaceful and restful.

The Jews already had seen how much love Hashem had shown them and how He had taken care of them. They had witnessed how Hashem took them out of Egypt with great miracles, contrary to the laws of nature. They benefited when Hashem provided them in the desert with miraculous food that fell from the sky and with a well that provided water, daily, for all three million people and their animals too. They saw how Hashem protected them from the elements with Holy Clouds. Hashem leveled the ground so that wouldn’t need to climb hills or descend into steep valleys. They felt Hashem’s infinite love. They realized that everything that Hashem did came from His love for the Jewish People and was for their ultimate benefit, whether or not they understood it.

Our forefather Avraham had an excruciating test, to sacrifice his beloved son to Hashem. Yet, the Alter of Slabodka says that Avraham was able to sleep peacefully the night before, because he had total faith in Hashem.

Everyone has challenges in life. The more faith and trust we have in Hashem, the less stress we will feel. We will understand that Hashem has a master plan for everything that happens to us, and that it is all for our benefit.

Based on a dvar Torah by Rabbi A. Henach Leibowitz zt”l, Rosh HaYeshiva of Yeshivas Chofetz Chaim

Parshas Naso: Brotherly Love!

Parshas Naso

Brotherly Love!

 

“On the second day, Nesanel son of Tzuar, the leader of Yisachar offered [his offering for the dedication of the Altar]” (Bamidbar 7:18)

There is a beautiful story that has been passed down for many years.

There were two brothers who lived on opposite sides of a hill. One of the brothers was married and had a large family. He was very poor. The other brother was rich but was alone.

One night, during harvest time, one brother tossed about in bed. “How can I rest comfortably when my brother has so many more mouths to feed?” He arose, gathered bushels of wheat and quietly climbed the hill to bring them over to his brother’s field.

Meanwhile, his brother across the hill also could not sleep. “How can I enjoy my harvest and not be concerned with my brother. He is alone in the world, without someone else to support him in his old age?” He arose in the night and quietly brought over bushels of wheat to his brother’s field.

The next morning each brother was surprised to find that they had the same number of bushels as before. The brothers repeated these night- time visits for many nights. Each morning, they were astounded to find that they had the same number of bushels as before.

One night the brothers met on the top of the hill. Then they realized what had happened and the brotherly love that was shown. With love, they embraced.

These brothers could have been jealous of each other for each one had something in life that the other brother did not. Instead of acting with jealousy towards one another they exhibited brotherly love.

The day that the construction of the Mishkan (Tabernacle) was completed was very joyous. The leaders of all the tribes (nesiim) brought special offerings in honor of the occasion. Each offering consisted of many different animals to be sacrificed to Hashem. Each offering also included a silver bowl and basin filled with fine flour that was mixed with oil, as well as a gold ladle filled with spices.

Nesanel son of Tzuar was the leader who advised the other leaders to bring an offering at this time. He also advised the other leaders to bring the exact same offering. The Chofetz Chaim explains that Nesanel did not want one leader to try to “outdo” the other by adding to his offering. Nesanel wanted to prevent any feelings of jealousy among the leaders. These efforts brought such pleasure to Hashem. Normally, only communal offerings are brought on the holy Shabbos. The offerings of the leaders were personal, from their own belongings, and normally would not have been allowed to be brought on Shabbos. The Midrash says that Hashem was so pleased with their efforts to promote love and friendship and prevent jealousy and hatred. Hashem wanted to “join them” and offer them Shabbos. Hashem permitted the personal offering of the leader of one of the tribes to be brought on Shabbos.

Additionally, since the leaders of the tribes showed such respect for one another, Hashem gave them an added honor. The Torah records the offering of each leader separately. Since the offerings were the same, the Torah could have listed them once and stated that this same korban was brought by each of the leaders of the tribes. Instead, the Torah repeats the same psukim over and over to accord honor to each leader individually.

We see how much Hashem cherishes it when we show love and respect for each other. Rabbi Moshe Chaim Lutzato says in the Mesilas Yesharim (Path of the Just. Chapt 19), “…The more that a person loves his fellow Jew, the greater is the love that Hashem showers upon him.”

Each of us should make every effort to foster feelings of love and friendship and to try to avoid causing jealousy. Those actions will bring nachas, joy & happiness to Hashem and will cause Hashem to increase His love for each of us.

Parshas Bamidbar: Personal Attention to Every Single Jew!

Parshas Bamidbar

Personal Attention to Every Single Jew!

 

“Take the total sum of the entire congregation of the children of Israel” (Bamidbar 1:2)

It was raining again in Shira’s sleep-away camp. She and her friends wanted to do something exciting and different. None of their ideas were viable. They heard that one of the older groups was taking a CPR class. They asked to join but were told that they were too young. After much pleading, they were given permission to watch the course as long as they didn’t disturb it in any way. That day the instructor was teaching what to do if a baby is choking. A few months later, Shira was sitting in her room and reading a book. Suddenly, she heard screaming. She raced downstairs and saw that her baby brother was turning blue and was barely breathing. Her mother and older sister were screaming in fright. They didn’t know what to do. Shira calmly walked over and performed the procedure that she had watched on the one day she had observed the CPR course in the summer. She dislodged a small toy from her baby brother’s mouth, and he started breathing again. Her grateful mother asked her where she learned how to do that. Shira told her that she had learned it in camp. A month later, another girl “who happened” to have watched the same course as Shira, saved the life of a child for whom she was babysitting.

A series of “coincidences” are not coincidences. They are called Hashgacha Pratis, Divine Providence. Hashem is watching over us and guiding events for a specific purpose. Hashem arranged for it to rain heavily on the day that the particular CPR course was being taught. Hashem arranged that Shira’s bunk was bored, with nothing to do. Hashem arranged for the instructor to go against her better judgement and permit the young girls to observe her class. And, Hashem arranged for that lesson to be instructions how to save an infant who is choking. Hashem clearly orchestrated these events in order that Shira and her friend would be in the position to save young lives.

Hashem told Moshe to take a count of the Jewish People. Why? Rashi says that Hashem had already counted us twice previously. Counting us again showed how beloved we are to Hashem. The Kli Yakar notes that the word the Torah uses for counting, “se’oo”, also has another meaning. It means to raise up or elevate. Hashem’s counting of the Jewish People lifted them above all the other nations of the world. Only the Jews merited to be counted individually. That is because every Jew is so important to Hashem. Even one Jew is considered as if he were an entire nation. The Kli Yakar compares the other nations of the world to a pile of straw. The owner of a pile of straw doesn’t count every single stalk in his pile. Rather, he just looks at the whole pile. Similarly, there is no special Hashgacha Pratis, Divine Providence, over individuals of other nations. Hashem is only concerned about the other nations as a group. That is not the case with the Jewish People.

Every single Jew merits Hashem’s individual attention! Hashem loves every one of us, so much. When we think about the deep love Hashem has for us, it is only natural to want to return that love.

Parshas Matos/Masei: The Secret is Out!

Parshas Matos/Masei

The Secret is Out!

 

“When you enter the Land of Israel you should drive out all its inhabitants… for if you don’t then those who remain will be pins in your eyes”. (Bamidbar 33:55)

There is a fable from the 1800’s describing what happens when you put a frog into boiling water. The premise is that if a frog is put suddenly into boiling water, it will jump out. However, if the frog is put in warm water which is then brought to a boil slowly, it will not perceive the danger. The frog will then be cooked to death.

Sun Tzu was a Chinese general and military strategist who lived in the sixth century, before the common era., His book, The Art of War, was the most important military treatise in Asia for the last two thousand years. Sun Tzu wrote, “The clever combatant imposes his will on the enemy but does not allow the enemy’s will to be imposed on him”. What enables the good general to strike and conquer, and achieve things beyond the reach of ordinary men? It is knowledge of the enemy’s dispositions, and what he means to do.

We are in a battle, every second of our lives, with the Satan, the Evil Inclination. He never rests but is always thinking of strategies to ensnare us. If we know some of those strategies in advance, we can help protect ourselves from sinning.

One of his strategies of the Evil Inclination is to slowly chip-away at us-like the frog in the fable- until we fall into sin. He will entice us to do a very small sin by saying, “It’s not such a big deal…. Everyone is doing it… You are a good person; this little thing won’t matter- Hashem will overlook it”. Then the Evil Inclination will entice us to do a slightly bigger sin – almost imperceptibly. Before we know it, he gets us to do a very big sin, without our even realizing it. Had the Evil Inclination tried to get us to do that big sin right away, we would have been able to withstand the temptation. However, since he worked on us, in small steps, we succumbed. It’s like water constantly dripping on a rock. After a long time, it bores a hole into the rock.

In Parshas Masai, Hashem told the Jewish people, “When you enter the Land of Israel you should drive out all its inhabitants… for if you don’t then those who remain will be pins in your eyes”. The Ramban explains, they will be like a bribe that blinds the wise (and makes even the wise incapable of fair judgement). They will cause you to err and eventually you will serve idols and turn away from Hashem.

The Rosh haYeshiva of Yeshiva Chofetz Chaim, Rav A. Henach Leibowitz zt”l, asked the following: The people we are speaking about were great and righteous. A bribe to a judge may blind his partiality in a court case. But what is the comparison here? How can it cause the Jews to serve idols? The Rosh haYeshiva explained the Ramban. In this case, we aren’t speaking about monetary bribes but the influence of environment and society. If the Jews ignore Hashem and don’t send out the inhabitants, then the inhabitants will have a corrupting influence on the Jews. It will happen subtly and slowly. It will not be noticeable at first. Then it will spread and eventually lead these great people to serve idols.

An awareness of the Evil Inclination’s strategy can protect us.
As soon as we feel a slight slipping, we should be on guard, quickly stopping it before it “snowballs”.

Don’t let the Evil Inclination make a frog out of you!

Parshas Pinchas: Don’t Get Hot Under the Collar!

Parshas Pinchas

Don’t Get Hot Under the Collar!

 

“Pinchas… has turned My anger away from My people by his zealously avenging Me among Them… Therefore, say, ‘I hereby give him My covenant of peace’.” (Bamidbar 25:11-12)

We have no shortage of extremists in today’s world. You are wearing a fur coat and an animal rights activist dumps blood on your coat. You don’t believe the myth of climate change and activists call on everyone to boycott your store. You knew a nice doctor who had to perform an abortion to save the mother’s life. He was killed by an activist who is against abortion at all costs. The activist asks, “How can you kill a fetus which is a human life?” He neglects to realize that the doctor was also a human. Or what about the Jewish activists, the Biryonim, who wanted to fight the Romans (during the siege of Jerusalem, before the destruction of the Second holy Temple) and burned the storehouses of food to force the people to their point of view. This extremism illustrates the power of emotion over reason in shaping our views, and the dangerous lengths those emotions can carry us to.

How was Pinchas any different than these extremists? He violently killed the prince of the tribe of Shimon. Why did Hashem reward such a person with priesthood and eternal peace (Some say he was also blessed with an exceedingly long life-span).

The actions of Pinchas were different in a few ways. He followed the only TRUTH. He was totally calm and not in the throes of emotion. He also asked permission from Moshe Rabbeinu.

There are extremists on both sides – Each side feels that they are correct based on their OPINIONS. The only REAL TRUTH is what Hashem tells us in the Torah. Pinchas followed TRUTH as dictated by the Torah. The Torah says that when a Jew sins with a non-Jew in public, an observer who is truly concerned about Hashem’s honor and so despises evil, has permission to kill him. Pinchas saw a dastardly action being done- a clear chilul (disrespect of) Hashem. He was not swept up in a flood of emotions when he proceeded to impale Zimri on his spear. Rather, he was a true zealot who followed the law of the Torah. He was totally in control of himself. He saw a terrible action and then asked Moshe for permission to act. Moshe gave him the permission he requested. Pinchas’ quick action appeased Hashem’s anger and ended the plague which killed 24,000 other Jews who had sinned immorally.

Pinchas had very strong emotions for Hashem’s honor-Otherwise he would have been forbidden to kill Zimri. Yet he was able to control those emotions and think rationally, “Am I acting according to Hashem’s will?”

Many times, we see or hear things that are very disturbing to us, and perhaps even forbidden by the Torah. Our actions must always be controlled by reason. Otherwise we may act in the wrong way or even do the same thing we are upset about. The person controlled by emotion may be so upset that if someone is talking in shul and disturbing others, that he may scream out, “How dare you disturb the davening of others!” Of course, besides sinning by embarrassing someone publicly, he is doing the very same wrong that he is protesting. In his righteous indignation, he is also disturbing the davening of others- probably even more so than the first person.

During difficult, emotional moments, we must strive hard to maintain our calm and think rationally.
We can’t allow our emotions to control us. We can overcome them and be strong.

Parshas Balak: Be a Say-Little and Not a Do-Little!

Parshas Balak

Be a Say-Little and Not a Do-Little!

 

“For I will honor you greatly” (Bamidbar 22:17)    “Balak slaughtered cattle and sheep and sent [some] to Balaam” (Bamidbar 22:40)

A small group of tourists wanted to experience the Passover seder of a particular, distinguished rabbi. The rabbi agreed to host them and named a sum of money to cover the cost of the meals. They happily agreed. After the holiday, the tourists thanked the rabbi for a beautiful and inspirational experience. As they were leaving, the rabbi handed them an envelope, containing all the money they had given him for the cost of the meals. “Why are you returning the money? We got more than our money’s worth”. The rabbi replied, “Had I not charged you, you wouldn’t have felt as comfortable eating to your heart’s desire. I returned the money because I don’t want to be paid for the great mitzvah of having guests”.

This rabbi exhibited the trait of tzadikim, as Shamai said, “Say little and do much”. As the Maharsha (B.M. 87A) explains, sometimes a potential guest won’t want to bother or burden a host. If the host initially offers a little, the guest will more readily accept his offer. The host can always offer more later.

This is exactly what our forefather Avraham did when he was visited by three “Arab travelers” soon after he had a circumcision. Avraham realized that the travelers didn’t want to bother him. Therefore, all he offered them was some bread to refresh themselves. That, they were willing to accept. Once, the guests were already seated, Avraham prepared a magnificent feast for them. They were already seated and were not expecting so much, so they stayed.

Contrast this behavior to that of two wicked people who exhibited the opposite trait- Say much and do little. Avraham wanted to buy the cave of Machpelah to bury his wife, Sarah. The owner, Efron originally offered it to Avraham as a gift. When Avraham refused, Efron hinted at the price he wanted. Efron eventually asked for payment in special, more expensive currency.

In this week’s parsha, Balak hired Bilaam to curse the Jews. Balak said “I will honor you very much”. Yet, when Bilaam arrived, Balak didn’t invite Bilaam to feast with him. Not only that, he sent over a very meager meal. This was not the honor that he had promised.

In these two instances, people were swayed by the dishonest promise of receiving more.

The Kisei Rachamim (Avos d’Rav Nosson Perek 13) has a novel approach. A person should not explicitly say that he wants to learn “this” many areas of Torah. That will awaken the Evil Inclination (Satan) who will then try to make his task more difficult by placing distractions in his way.

Similarly, King David said that tomorrow he was going to see a nice house instead of saying he was going to go to the beis medrash to learn Torah. That was so as not to awaken the Satan who would try everything in his power to make the learning more difficult. Likewise, the Torah was given unbeknown to the Satan who had tried to convince Hashem to keep the Torah for the angels and not to give it to us.

Perhaps this also explains what happened with Efron. The Avos dRav Nosson states, WHILE Avraham was weighing the coins, he heard Efron’s desire and ended-up giving him the better currency. Perhaps, the Evil Inclination had caused Efron to become dazzled by the money and ask for more than he originally intended.

If we are a say-little type of person, we have a better chance of accomplishing more mitzvos. People will be more willing to accept our favors and we won’t awaken the Satan who tries to distract us.

Parshas Chukas: For Want of a Nail the Kingdom was Lost

Parshas Chukas

For Want of a Nail the Kingdom was Lost

 

“Miriam died and was buried there. There was no water for the people”. (Bamidbar 20:1-2)

There is a 13th century proverb:

For want of a nail the shoe was lost,
for want of a shoe the horse was lost,
for want of a horse the knight was lost,
for want of a knight the battle was lost,
for want of a battle the kingdom was lost.
So a kingdom was lost—all for want of a nail.

During 40 years of wandering in the desert, the Jews had ample water. Three million people and their animals were miraculously provided with enough water to satisfy their daily needs. The water came from a rock which was known as the Well of Miriam since the well was in Miriam’s merit. When Miriam passed away the well hid amongst other rocks. Without their source of water, the Jewish people felt as if they were dying of thirst. It reached the point that they actually quarreled with Moshe. Hashem told Moshe to find the Rock, speak to it, and it would once again provide a miraculous quantity of water. We all know what happened then. Moshe spoke to the wrong rock and nothing happened. When he found the correct rock, he hit it (which he wasn’t supposed to do) twice and then the water started gushing. Hashem told Moshe, because you did not bring about a proper sanctification of My Name, you will be punished and will die before entering the Land of Israel. Had Moshe entered the Land of Israel, the Temple would have been built, Mashiach would have come, and we would have never been exiled. All the tragedies of Jewish history would never have occurred.

This whole progression started because the source of water disappeared. Why did it disappear?

The Kli Yakar explains that the Jewish people were being punished for the infraction of not expressing enough sadness upon the death of one of their leaders, the righteous Miriam. Although they felt sad, they didn’t express it in a torrent of tears, which they did upon the deaths of their other leaders, Moshe and Aharon.

Look at the progression of events that followed from this (“For want of a nail the shoe was lost”). One infraction “snowballed” and changed the course of Jewish history.

We must be “Thinking People”, constantly evaluating and re-evaluating our actions. Are we doing the right thing? Are we showing proper sensitivity to others? What does Hashem expect us to do in any given situation? We can’t act blindly and say that it’s not such a big deal-we don’t know if it will begin a progression of events that will “snowball”. We don’t want the “kingdom to be lost—all for want of a nail”.

Similarly, with a small gesture a “Thinking Person” can bring happiness to others.
A smile or kind word, or just listening to a person who needs a good listener,
can “snowball” into something beautiful and special.

Parshas Korach: Do Nothing and Get Everything!

Parshas Korach

Do Nothing and Get Everything!

 

“The earth opened its mouth and swallowed them… and their entire wealth.” (Bamidbar 16:32)

Dan loved money. His entire goal in life was to make money. He worked very hard in life and achieved his dream. He made lots and lots of money. Many worthy organizations approached Dan for a donation. The response was always the same- “I worked hard for my money. You should work hard for yours”. Dan never gave a donation-not even a penny.

Dan had no living relatives. When he died, his neighbors wondered if his will designated money for any charitable cause. When they heard about the will, they were in a state of shock! Dan did not leave any money for charity. What was worse, was that Dan’s instructions were to burn all his money! Not a cent for anyone. “What a waste”, they said to each other. “Think of the numerous people and organizations that could have benefited”.

Hashem’s actions were as unusual as Dan’s. One of the richest people who ever lived was Korach. He had found part of the treasure that Yosef had collected and concealed in Egypt. He had become fabulously wealthy from it. Korach was also brilliant and had a distinguished job (to help carry the holy aron). However, it wasn’t enough for Korach. His jealousy led him to the worst argument in history. He disputed Moshe’s honesty and claimed that the Torah Moshe taught was not from Hashem.

Korach’s punishment was severe. The earth opened and Korach was swallowed into it. Some say he was burned as well. Korach’s followers were also swallowed, as well as their houses and all their possessions. The Midrash tells us, even small items that had been lent to other people, were miraculously drawn into that hole. Korach’s name was miraculously erased from any legal document that he had signed. Hashem didn’t want any trace of Korach remaining.

The Sforno asks the obvious question- Wouldn’t Korach’s vast wealth have been useful and helpful to others (as Dan’s could have been)? Why did it have to get swallowed? The Sforno answers that if a righteous person would have benefited from Korach’s wealth, it would have been a merit for Korach. Clearly, that was a merit that Korach didn’t deserve. Even though Korach would not have actively given it, it would still have been a credit for him. That would have been a merit that Hashem did not want him to have. Similarly, the Sforno continues, if a person loses money and a poor person finds it and benefits from it, the original owner of the money gets the mitzvah for giving tzedakah. The owner of the money did absolutely nothing and did not even intend to do anything good. Hashem, in His kindness credits him for doing a mitzvah.

Hashem gives us credit for any positive deed that results that comes-about from our actions. Rabbi Krohn tells a story about an irreligious Jew who visited the Western Wall for the very first time. He watched a Yerushalmi Jew daven with such intensity, as if Hashem was standing in front of him. The visitor was so moved by this that it led him on the road to becoming observant and becoming an active member of an Orthodox shul. The Yerushalmi Jew will be credited by Hashem for all the mitzvos done by this newly observant Jew and all the mitzvos done by his future descendants. The Yerushalmi Jew did not go out of his way to influence the irreligious Jew, yet the Yerushalmi also gets credit for his actions.

Whatever you do, make sure to make a kiddush Hashem; you don’t know who’s watching you!
If you facilitate a mitzvah, even unknowingly, you get a share in the reward.

This is the story of our organization, JEP Queens. We have already influenced multiple generations to become Torah observant. Both our volunteer staff and you – our donors who help enable our many programs to happen, share in all the mitzvos that are generated for eternity. Our success is your success.